Two sides to everything

Like this thistle, there are two sides to everything.
A story, a wall, a bed, a divorce being wrangled out in the court system.
For this thistle, it can be viewed as something hurtful, full of prickles, and to be avoided. Or it can viewed as a lovely food source.
A minature birdfeeder on a stalk.

Interesting, you'll see what your looking for --
and prehaps miss the entire point.